Religion
Going to church once a week does not make a “good Christian/Islamic/Buddhist/etc”. It’s not the weekly trip to a building where you listen to some holy man preach his own interpretation of the sacred text that makes a person a “good Christian/Islamic/Buddhist/etc”. Everything discussed in a church is subjective. There are multiple different variations of Christianity throughout the world using the same basic Holy Bible as a guide, yet each person gets something different from it. What one receives from any passage depends on themselves and what they are going through. I personally don’t believe that the tales of men dead for centuries should be telling me what to do, what to believe, how to act. God gave us free will and that allows us to make our own choices. Choices that may or may not be shared by everyone, but they work with our individual lives. If a person doesn’t have the belief that someone above is watching over them, whether it’s polytheism or monotheism, than what they do on a weekly basis means nothing. I person can have the belief, know that someone is watching over them, then they don’t need someone telling them this on a weekly basis. They already know.
In my humble opinion, it’s the daily actions of each individual that makes for a good “Christian/Islamic/Buddhist/etc”. Even though a person may not go to church on a weekly basis, or at all, but when they see someone drop a $100 bill and hand it back to the person, that is what makes a good Christian/Islamic/Buddhist/etc. It’s the people who spend every day of their lives helping the poor, rallying Congress to pass a better health care bill, protesting against the injustices of the world; these are the people who have the belief and they don’t need the weekly reminders that their is a God.
I may not go to church every week, but when I’m asked, I do go with friends. I plan on making sure that Ian spends some time going to church; and not just one church, but be exposed to all varieties of religion. He needs to be able to make up his own mind and not let others influence him. He needs to know, that even though there are people fighting for their beliefs, that they’re not doing it because someone is telling them to, but because they believe in their cause. Everything begins with the belief, for if no one had ever believed in the impossible, then there wouldn’t be religion.
I know this was random, but for some reason, it popped into my head while I was rocking Ian. It’s not often I get these thoughts, so I felt the need to write it down. Agree with me or not, it’s how I feel and no one can influence me otherwise.
I am a stay at home mom with my first child, sometimes wondering what I have gotten myself into. I have an amazingly supportive husband, who is also a computer geek with a slight anti-social complex.
